Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Lotus Flower Tea Light Candle Holders at The Crabby Nook

LOTUS Capiz Shell Tea Light Candle Holders


Everyone loves our Capiz Shell Tea Light Candle Holders!

You will be pleased with the splash of color from the glow of a candle these candle holders add to the romance to any room!
  • The Lotus represents Purity, Compassion and Love.
  • Capiz Shell Lotus Tea Light holder.
  • Used as single accent pieces or in a variety of multiples. See all of our beautiful colors to arrange an amazing display.
Be sure to check out our Flat Lotus Candle Holders too! We carry a wonderful Lotus Tea Light Candle that fits our Capiz Shell Lotus Candle Holders.








Tuesday, June 4, 2013

ATTRACTING BIRDS INTO YOUR GARDEN

ATTRACTING BIRDS INTO YOUR GARDEN


For bird-watching enthusiasts who want to attract a greater variety of songbirds to their backyards.

Moving water attracts more song birds to your yard  


Moving water is the purest and most attractive source of water to birds.  Free form bird ponds are the most natural and effective bird baths, because in nature, water is found at ground level.  More birds will use a ground level bird bath especially when enhanced with visible movements in the water.
Dripping water is very attractive to birds because the ripples created in a bird bath can be seen by birds from a great distance.  The sight of ripples created by dripping water will also attract a wide variety of songbirds from nearby trees to the bath.  Many birds like to perch on a dripper tube and drink directly from the end of the tube.
Misters spray a fine cloud of water that many birds, such as Humming birds, find irresistible.  Many birds will take leaf baths in preference to bathing in a birdbath.  Leaf bathing is when birds rub up against wet foliage.  Feather misters can be attached to a small tree or shrub with the nozzle directed at some easily viewed foliage to attract song birds.
Moving water is an important aspect that is why our bird ponds and baths come with a pump, dripper, mister or a combination of the three. 


Placement and maintenance of your bird bath

A good location for your bird bath should meet as many of the following criteria as possible:
  1. Area already frequently by birds.  Often this is near a bird feeder, but do not position the bird bath too close to the feeder as seeds and hulls will fall into the bath.
  2. Easily viewed from a location where you frequently sit to watch birds.  A good distance away from your house or porch is about 20-40 feet.
  3. To the east or north of your observation point.  This will put the sun at your back for afternoon viewing.
  4. Near trees and shrubs for cover and under a small tree.
  5. Relatively level area (this makes installation easier).
  6. Avoid dense ground cover which can hide a cat.
It is preferable to operate a dripper on a daily basis because this provides the birds with a dependable supply of cool fresh water and also keeps the bird bath full.  A battery operated water timer is very helpful in establishing a regular on-off schedule which the birds become accustomed to, and which consrves water.  Water timers can be purchased from most local garden centers, hardware stores or discount stores.  With a timer, we often observe the birds gathering around the bath about 15 minutes before the timer is scheduled to come on.  Mid to late afternoon seems to be a favorite bathing time.
We recommend that you empty, rinse and refill the bath at least weekly or more often when it is used frequently.  You can use a garden hose to flush out the dirty water without having to lift the bath.
Algae growth can be minimized by locating the bath in at least some shade.  If algae grows on the bath it can usually be removed with a jet of water from a garden hose.  Stubborn algae can also be removed with diluted bleach.  Add 1/4 cup of household bleach to a full bath, stir with a stick, let sit 5 minutes and then pour out on the ground away from any plants.  Rinse thoroughly and refill the bath.
Most outdoor faucets are designed to drain when nothing is connected to them to prevent freeze damage during the winter.  We also recommend you bring dripper tubes and needle valves inside.  Run fresh water through the tubing before reconnecting the needle valve.  Most bird baths can be used with any bird bath de-icer, we recommend that you store the bath inside until spring.  Repeated freeze-thaw cycles can eventually initiate cracks.



Saturday, June 1, 2013

Landscaping with Feng Shui

LANDSCAPING with FENG SHUI 


Feng Shui is the study of the "built" environment and while feng shui does look at the larger environment surrounding the structure, there are no hard and fast rules about the landscaping. Feng Shui is primarily focused on the Qi within a structure, as that is what has the most direct effect on the people. When it comes to the outside environment, the main points of concern is that the landscaping is beautiful and in balance with the rest of the environment. Living in a beautiful environment is much more supportive than living in an environment that is an eyesore. You can tell the Qi of a neighborhood or area by how green and glossy the trees and plants are.

Some general rules:

Pathways should flow like a meandering stream not a straight road. As to trees, they are fine as long as they are not placed in a direct line with any entrances, especially the main entrance. Try to keep a balance of yin and yang (dark and light) when thinking of the trees. Avoid trees that will completely block the light. Too much of anything is not good. Again, balance is the key.
Shrubbery is okay as long as it is kept neat and prevented from overgrowing. Trees and shrubbery can be used to block harsh Qi such as strong winds. Grass does not pose any problems. Strive for beauty.
Flowers and other colorful plants can be used as long as they fit within the environment and follow the rules of the 5 elements .
"Wood produces fire, fire produces earth, earth produces metal, metal produces water, water produces wood."  Wood is green, fire is red, earth is tans or yellows, metal is white or gold, water is blue or black. Avoid using them in a destructive combination such that "wood uproots earth, earth blocks water, water douses fire, fire melts metal, and metal chops wood".
Consider the direction the building "sits." For example if the building faces to the North and sits to the South, than this is a Li building (Li is the Fire trigram). This house would be supported by a lot of red flowers, but would not benefit from blue or black colors. A house that sits to the west and faces east (Tui is a metal trigram) would benefit from white and gold flowers. Reds and purples should be avoided. This can also apply to the color of the house trim as well. These are all general rules and while their effect can be minimal on the house itself, following the rules of balance can support the house and its occupants.
The two items that need to be looked at carefully are rocks and water. Since they are both part of the five elements and are used to remedy certain situations in the greater environment, they need to be placed very carefully.
Water in the west is not good, while in the southwest and east it can assist prosperity, during this time period. These directions should not be in front of, or behind the house or building. If they are, it takes a qualified practitioner to determine if the water will have a positive or negative effect. If you are striving for the effect of the water element, then it is better to not use an earthen container such as a fountain made of rocks since earth blocks water in the cycle of the elements. Metallic containers work well as metal strengthens water. Many people use metal troughs effectively with beautiful plants and flowers planted around it to blend it with the environment. Ponds and pools can be used if placed under the guidance of a trained Feng Shui practitioner.
The same can be said of rocks, especially large decorative rocks. Because these are used in certain situations to correct for a problem, they need to be placed under the guidance of a Feng Shui practitioner. Placed haphazardly, they could have an adverse effect on the prosperity of the building if used in front of or in back of the structure. This takes a qualified Feng Shui practitioner to determine if the placement of these elements is needed or not. Feng Shui folklore states that a building should have a mountain behind it to support it. By using rocks and earth, you can create this mountain. While this sounds good, this is not true in every case. Each building is unique and needs to be looked at on a case by case basis.
To summarize, plants and other "wood" elements are fine anywhere as long as they do not block the Qi of the building and are used in balance. Colors can be used to assist the home as long as they fall within the rules of the five elements. Water and Rocks need to be placed under the advice of a trained practitioner to avoid adversely effecting the people or the prosperity. When placed correctly, they can have a very supportive effect on the building or house. All in all, the goal of Feng Shui is to create a comfortable and beautiful environment for the people. Strive for this when landscaping.


Monday, May 27, 2013

Oriental Gardens with Feng Shui Design


ORIENTAL GARDENS with Feng Shui


How you arrange all the things in your garden is key to creating an oasis, and not a jungle. Feng Shui is the classic Chinese art of arranging furniture and possessions to help you find ways to live more harmoniously in your environment. To the Chinese, Chi, the natural life-force, can be out of balance if spaces are not inviting and tranquil. Adherents believe that how you set up your home, work space and garden will influence every aspect of your life: your emotional and physical well-being, your career, even your love life. Whether or not you believe that, if you apply the principles of Feng Shui to your yard and garden, you will transform the area around your house into an oasis for you and your family. Those principles are the basics of smart and natural garden design that will make every garden more attractive and pleasing to be in.

I see Feng Shui landscape designing, as another way of bringing balance for your personal enhancement. Working with the earth brings the qualities of earth to you. The basic element of earth is healing, regenerative,and without any effort at all, you recieve these benefits. It is a way of bringing forth a balance of the yin and yang, light and darkness are balanced by using different elements: water, earth,fire (example: pointy leaves of plants represent this element) rocks, wood element (trees), metals (flower pots, wind chimes or a metal bench to sit and reflect the days events. When you take these elements and use the bagua-the map of Feng Shui, you are able to draw beneficial energy to you and your home.

A way to apply the Feng Shui philosophy to your garden is starting at the entrance. An arbor, for example, makes clear to people where to come in and makes the garden inviting." Ideally," the entrance faces south -- the direction, by the way, where your garden will get maximum sun exposure. A closed gate would be less inviting for people and energy, and it might shade some of your plants. Though there are no particular Feng Shui plants, Colors have a strong impact on energy flow, just as they have been shown to influence our moods. Hot colors, like red and yellow flowers, lift up your energy level when you're looking at them. The cooler-colored purple and white flowers are more soothing.

Remember, Feng Shui emphasizes diversity. The five elements you want to have represented in your garden are wood, metal, earth, fire and waterWater, be it a fountain or pond or bird bath, is very soothing. By the way, attracting the birds is the best, most natural form of bug control, because they eat pest insects.

The compass directions have corresponding colors to help create your balanced landscaping. When you involve the elements and colors of the bagua map, it creates the a good energy-chi and it is carried into your home to help empower you and your family. The balance of inside/outside Feng Shui will give you the extra boost it takes to live your life in harmony and balance. You will also realize that once you create this harmony, more birds, butterflies, praying mantis will arrive on the scene to share and add to this energized area. You will also find this area to be one that attracts the human race to your area.

If you don't have enough space for a birdbath, there are other ways to incorporate water into a garden. A simple electric fountain would do. Just add water and the electric pump would recycle it.

DESIGNING YOUR FENG SHUI GARDEN

Landscape design is not just a matter of putting up a building, planting trees and flowers, or building an artificial mountain. It is a means of revealing one's attitude of life by displaying landscape esthetically. Landscape needs to be restrained, gentle, and understated. We should modestly hide, not boldly dominate as is fashionable in the West. This enables a more intimate experience and sense of fitting into the environment.

The Chinese way of thinking follows a clear path:

  • Respect experiences.
  • Discern the truth by studying the past.
  • Stand between science and theology.
  • Combine ethics with esthetics.
  • In Chinese history no special ideal or religion controls spiritual life — real life comes before anything else. Chinese respect nature and self-knowing, and people adapt into a natural world more easily.
A Chinese will search for compromise while a Westerner wants a Yes or No answer. This constitutes fundamentally different approaches to landscape design.

In Western thought we oscillate between total belief in a Creator (ignoring real life) or a full belief in human power to explore and dominate the world (which in many respects also ignores real life). Westerners measure their world in human dimensions, with the formal garden recognized as a symbol of human power and achievement. Humans in Western thought are conquerors and improvers of nature, so people want a walled-in and controlled copy of Paradise (perfection beyond real life).

By enabling and worshipping human power, we lose our fear of wildness. We conquer nature, sanitize and "improve" it. And these ideas are intrinsically Western, coming as they do from Plato and Christian theology.

There is an attitude of profit regarding land in the West. The practical and utilitarian trend is Western, which historically was restricted in the East. In the East the attitude encompasses humility and respect for the forces of nature and heaven.

It is very rare in Chinese design history to place geometrical forms on hilly land, as is common in Western countries. Only in the Chinese Emperor's gardens were geometric forms acceptable, because for Chinese they are symbols of respect for natural forces (heaven and earth).

You will find nothing about improvement of the land, no modification of perceived imperfections or a need to control or dominate the landscape. Even the Son of Heaven would not assume he had the authority to do such a thing.

The four landscape elements are:

  • Mountain
  • Water
  • Plant
  • Building

Yin and Yang in the landscape consist of:

  • Stillness and movement
  • Unity and variety
  • Locality and generality
  • Scenery and subjective reactions

Practical Application

Feng Shui patios and gardens are closer in spirit to rock, English or low-maintenance gardens than to formal, artificial and overdesigned European gardens, which are characterized by unnatural features such as severe corners, angles and straight lines.

Whether you live in a condo or a mansion, whether you are positioning a potted plant on your patio or having many acres professionally landscaped, putting everything in its right place according to feng shui principles will help create a healing, harmonious and natural environment.

In designing your outdoor space, be mindful of the three basic concepts of Feng Shui:

  • Energy flow (wavy or curvy is beneficial; straight lines are negative)
  • Balance of yin (dark, soft, passive) and yang (light, hard, active)
  • Generative and destructive relationships of the five elements: wood, fire, earth, metal and water.


Here's how to apply basic Feng Shui principles in your spot of earth.

Stand in the center of your outdoor space.

Use a compass to determine the eight directions.

NorthCreativity, Personal growth, New ideas, Inspiration, Prospects, Career, Music, Art
  • Use: Water elements 
  • Good place for: Metal toolsheds, ponds, Jacuzzis
  • Shapes: Waves & curves
  • Avoid: Stone, clay, earth.


Northeast Knowledge, Wisdom, Meditation/reading, Inner journeys, Spiritual and intellectual growth, Nature
  • Use: Earth element 
  • Good place for: Stone benches, rock gardens, repairing equipment, stones and boulders, statutary, brick, flagstone, anything made from the earth  
  • Shapes: Low and flat surfaces
  • Avoid: Plants and trees.


EastNew life and growth, Rebirth and rejuvenation, Harmony, Health, Family life, Nutrition, Healing
  • Use: Wood element
  • Good place for: Fruit trees, herbs, medicinal plants, play equipment, sauna, tai chi and other exercises, trees, plants
  • Shapes: Columns, cylinders 
  • Avoid: Metal garden accessories, patio furniture, tools, white flowers


Southeast Wealth, Abundance, Material possessions, Communication
  • Use: Wood element
  • Good place for: Cultivation and display of show plants, flowers or fish 
  • Shapes: Cylinders, posts and columns
  • Avoid: Metal garden accessories, patio furniture and tools, white flowers.


SouthOpportunity, Dreams, Aspirations, Awards, Fame, Achievement, Happiness, Longevity, Festivity
  • Use: Fire element
  • Good place for: Barbecues, fire pits, burning leaves, trees, flowers
  • Shapes: Pointed and triangular shapes
  • Avoid: Water elements such as ponds, waterfalls, and fountains.


Southwest Marriage, Romance, Motherhood, Love, Relationships, Partners
  • Use: Earth element
  • Good place for: Seating/dining for two, team sports 
  • Shapes: Low, flat surfaces
  • Avoid: Wood patio or deck furniture, gazebos, fences and gates, the color green.

West Children, Creativity, Harvest, Socializing and entertaining

  • Use: Metal element
  • Good place for: Outdoor entertaining, bar, children's playground/garden, convalescing and healing, sunbathing
  • Shapes: Circles and arches.


NorthwestTrade, Interests outside of home, International travel, Fatherhood, Mentors and benefactors, Helpful people, Supporters
  • Use: Metal element
  • Good place for: Statues of deities, angels, cherubs, animals, wind chimes, sounds 
  • Shapes: Circles and arches
  • Avoid: Barbecues, fire pit, pyramid, red flowers.
  • Avoid: Barbecues, fire pit, pyramid, red flowers.



Saturday, March 23, 2013

The Pagoda in Feng Shui by The Crabby Nook


PAGODA 


The Pagoda brings not only protection against bad energy and pernicious forces in your surrounding but career and scholastic luck to its owner. Auspicious Chi gathering around the pagoda will energize the person who work nearby making one feeling fresh and alert during his work or study. The Pagoda is also a powerful symbol of protection against illnesses.


The Pagoda makes an excellent gift for those pursuing higher education, people who are constantly sick or those vying for a promotion at work.


The pagoda is a temple of knowledge, peace and silence. It symbolizes the path of wisdom. It is said that a person who knows more or is knowledgeable stands firm like a mountain or a Pagoda and cannot be shaken by anything. The Pagoda is believed to possess the power to tame unruly minds and behaviors. As you may read in many Chinese tales, the Pagoda is used for taming of cheeky spirits by 'imprisoning' them in it. Hence the Pagoda can be used to ward of evils and bad chi.


The Pagoda is a very useful Feng Shui enhancer and cure that brings literary luck, fame luck, protection and advancement in career. It is also potent to ward off bad energy and killing forces (sar chi') in your abode.




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Thursday, March 21, 2013

Skin Care Products for Chemo Patients Part II/III

Skin Care Products for Chemo Patients 

Part II/III


My Quote

quote by brenda sanford

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Post treatment Survivorship

Facial Skin Care after Chemo

avon productsI have always waited until after I was finished with my chemo treatment before I start working on bringing my face back for socializing. If you are like me you will notice that your skin color may look a little ashen and very dull.

Right after my first chemo treatment, I tried every expensive department store skin care products that I could find or used to use on a regular basis while working as a professional career woman, to bring my skin back to looking healthy. I am not going to name the list of products and brands that did not work for me just to be respectful and because they are still very good products. And, because they may work for you.

After trying a lot of different products, I happened to catch an advertisement for Avon ANEW products. The ads talked about rejuvenating and moisturizing your skin. I had never used Avon cosmetics before and didn't have much hope. At the time I thought Avon cosmetics were inexpensive so how could they do wonders when the most expensive products couldn't?

I started using the ANEW Ultimate line. After a few weeks, my skin looked and felt so good that I was able to move down to the Reversalist line. This time around I went straight to the Platinum line. I use the face wash, serum, day cream, night cream and eye cream. I also use several of the ANEW Clinical products. You will love how it feels when you start using these products. You will be able to feel them working. Your skin will start looking so good that you too, will be able to move down one level of product strength.

You should also know that these products work for men too. They are not just for women and men will see great improvements in their skin too.

PLEASE NOTE: I do not sell Avon products.

The best compliment I have ever gotten after finishing up chemo treatment was, "You look so healthy!"















Avon ANEW Platinum

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Avon ANEW Ultimate

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Avon ANEW Reversalist

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Avon ANEW Clinical

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Cancer Fighting Foods - on YouTube














Tarocco Facial Care Products

found on Amazon

Another product that I use in addition to the Avon products is Tarocco.

Tarocco, meaning "Beautiful" in Sicilian dialect, is also known as "blood orange" and "red orange". This fruit, rich in antioxidants, will leave your skin soft, replenished and toned.

You will love how smooth and soft your skin feels and how much moisture the face cream adds to your skin. I love the citrus orange fragrance and feel very pampered after using these products.













Part I covered Body Skin Care during treatment and can be found here

Part III will cover Body Skin Care after treatment